But, please keep trying to find a better, more constructive way to get your feelings out. I am trying to be more connected with friends where my somewhat inside of me is reminding but in reality I don’t really like to do so and still makes no different.. :(. Resh February 16th, 2016 K November 21st, 2016 Don’t know why i do I got great friends and family, good job and 3 beautiful kids. I’m 24, working 2 jobs, and trying to get through college. Anne January 17th, 2017 exactly james…but once u here i love u phrase dis is once again a initial start for lonliness….u wil b happy until u here dat phrase once u start missin it from d one who u r expectin it….den u r back to same mood….its a cycle…wat i think…..wat i think to overcome dis is….1: keep urself busy everytime….2: if u get sum time to tk rest….jst play any outdoor games…3: bcom tierd nd hv a good sleep…….maintain dis cycle…..hope it may help d ppl like us facing all such things……i m nt older as u ppl but stil facing d same problem as u ppl… I got back from an 8-years long work contract in a foreign country about 6 months ago. Great site. I’m so isolated and lonely but it’s not because I am but I’m longing for the same people like me. It’s a blessing if you are so responsible and strong at only 16 years old. Most of the time a number of circumstances have caused loneliness, and these can happen to anyone. He wont have anyone when he’s older. Think of activities you could do together or things you could share on a more regular basis. That kinda tasty. Anyway, I have found myself 62 now, and live alone in my own flat in this village that I moved to 7 years ago. I wonder what life is? I’ve tried to connect with new people but I don’t have anything to talk about and it doesn’t last. Hey everybody, man i was lonely when i came on here, then i read everyone’s comments, now i feel like ur all my friends and I’m happy with that, love wayne, not straight. The former, loneliness by separation, just makes plain common sense. These cases are much more complicated because the person must know enough or learn to do so to determine the deep cause that causes that discomfort. Even though I know I could not commit such a horrible sin as my Faith guides me not too and I would not put that sadness on my parents who love me and friends and people at church. No one seem’s to care about me (not in the attention-seeking way) in reality, no one has, so i don’t either, it’s really sad to be honest. Ya know that interaction made my day too. I am still living with my parents and ashamed of it . Books give kids an opportunity to experience something in their imaginations before it happens to them in real life. since yesterday my roommate which i shared room with told her mom that she will rent her own room soon make my heart sink. It is always wonderful to have a loved one to share your life with. Therapy is a great place to start by giving you the tools you need to cope and work through any bad thoughts, even if it takes some time for you to trust someone. Love it!! I feel like no one likes me.. Maybe we all had this idea that joy and sadness cannot co-exist together. I thought that this could make you happy but is not like that. My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me. Taylor August 10th, 2014 Try coming up with some of your own. Speedy November 3rd, 2014 I feel so alone. Kind of like strangers in the same house right now, but I make sure she knows I love her and have her happiness at the center of my being, no matter how much she may feel she wants to hurt my feelings. So we’re lonely, but we’re willing to exclude very many people who might alleviate our loneliness because … they’re not good enough to be our companions. I am now 53 years old and feel more alone than ever. but lately hes been so busy and he barely spend any time with me. How dare you judge anyone elses feelings.. just because you found a name for your condition and probably went to a doctor dosent mean anyone elses experiences are bullshit or pretend. I didn’t think life could become this sad and lonely . I pretty much exclusively wear Lonely Kids Club clothing. I am trying to keep busy but living by yourself especially when all my friends are married is so difficult . I worked away my time with my kids because it was mandatory to work all holidays. I feel very afraid when doing anything social like introducing myself to someone from my distant relatives. A mom who gets it February 15th, 2016 Hi everyone. I’m just lonely I guess it will pass. I still feel lonely and depressed. Many people have found therapy to be incredibly helpful. I have no problem talking to people for work, but when I’m not working, I am so lonely and isolated. Hopefully then I will feel more comfortable with myself and stop worrying all the time! A good kid.. I’m very proud of him. Been buying from LKC online for years now. I had to buy myself some AMAZING LKC T's for Xmas! Its all surface crap and meaningless dialogue. lol, Great article. Hi John, i dont know in my environment (may be i am not Lucky ) is jus another problem to know some one Reply If the current therapist is not working for you, please consider asking your grandparents to help you find someone you would be comfortable with. Reply I just can’t help feeling like no one truly knows me, and I will never be a “normal person” who knows who they are and excels in life. And it seems like you have a good head on your shoulders to see that things are “off”. I don’t feel anyone owes me anything,I don’t feel sorry for myself-I just feel empty now. Help support our effort to bring psychological information to the public by making a donation. I don’t have any friends either and didn’t bother going to college after school so i’m really depressed and failed my Gcses’s , but i’m trying to get in for this year (thank goodness). I want to be better I feel lost and not able to focus on today with out these thought getting in my way. The softest and most affordable leggings you’ll ever see. So we hide it. I have been pretty upset. Yet it doesn’t appear the professionals are paying enough or the right attention. Reply And just be friendly. I am not able to get through to her quite yet, since I upset her not too long ago. Buying clothes from here makes me feel less lonely. I like your thinking! I have a sister and even she is far away from me I talk to her on skype and she always encourages me. i wish if i drink one cup of coffee in peace . I am looking for a job filling out application after application and can’t find anything. Perhaps our civilization is at fault, after all look at what and who we worship (actually, don’t, if you can possibly avoid it). This, to me, is tragic. That is a good way to work off depression. I fear that I’ll still be like this in my 30s :(( hopefully not. And here i am being loved and care for. Widow’s heartbreaking Xmas dinner plea. It can mean the difference between life & death for someone! I wishi could just move and go somewhere i could meet new ppl and never look back at my lousy family. But again I don’t know what futures gonna be. For example, you may attack yourself for being “awkward” or “creepy” and then act quiet in a group of people. But since then my teachers all started looking at me differently and my name was cancelled from the price list that year as the best student, I didn’t cry for the price I lost but cried because my comfort zone is no longer my comfort zone its been destroyed by my own mother, she wasn’t leaving with us I expected her to trust me but clearly she didn’t those were things that killed me inside but I could share with anybody. I don’t hate people, just a majority of them American society especially has become inane, selfish and ignorant. But inside my own head I start to get anxiety and these thoughts go. Been divorced for almost 15 years. Don’t miss opportunities greater force give to You, if you look long behind you won’t see now. But then in the real world, when things get hard, they fall apart and fail. The sadness of my life has now taken its toll and I,m finding it very hard to ignore. Im alone why my life is this way never on a million yrs s Men and women here are unreliable and I don’t often trust as many of you said here it’s hard to trust someone. As a matter of fact it ignores it all together except for indoctrinating children at school. I am 26, tall and told I’m very handsome even that’s should model as well as I have light brown hair, clean shaven and I exercise, go to the gym and run and I am a vegetarian. Clues to the answers likely lie in these remarkably similar comments (over many, many articles and over many, many years). I came from a family of 2 other brother’s and 2 sisters. After reading your post, I am beginning to realize I don’t have to travel and see the world to “live”. @Cj Major hugs to you hun. I have had sex in the past and had a girlfriend, but I am shy and the weird thing is people on the outside would consider me an extrovert and yet on the inside I feel the opposite. And who knows, I may meet someone who views life similarly to mine. I have been feeling extremely depressed these days so much so that i often ended up crying, something that i am disappointed of being a guy but i couldn’t help it. It is SO important to reach out to people…even going to places like this site. While we will still struggle with loneliness, self-esteem issues and our self-worth, the truth of who we really are will begin to surface. I oversleep like whole is just wasted. Reply I did not foresee my inability to obtain a loan and was, therefore, dis-enrolled. I feel like when my life doesn’t have people in it, time is alot slower. I wasnt the most social person even before I had kids. but everytime I try to motivate myself I procrastinate then feelings of being useless creep in and Im not good enough, then I get depressed and you the story. I think as I grow older, and with what I’ve been seeing, observing and experiencing about life… whether through nature, human relationships, and just about everything else.. Google Rating . I've ordered quite a few pieces for myself and to gift to others from the team at Lonely Kids Club. Mindfulness has really helped me. So I am 20 year old girl. Exactly what you want from a service like this an impressive considering the scale of the operation. Thanks to technology, you can connect with more people—and do so more conveniently—than at any other time in history. If you were abused, you maybe a target for bullies or mean people. Reply I read all of you ane seems u r like me? We are one. Some very old people seem to have a handle on this and feel happy even at their old age so why should I be in self-pity mode all the time? I try to be understanding, compassionate, and kind to myself as well as everyone I meet. This is the best clothing store. I have a sibling who has more serious psychological problems than I do, so my mother already has too much on her plate. i think i will feel less unhappy with myself if i write it down. I have no friends – partly because I am painfully scared of social interaction and partly because I’m a very unattractive person (inside and outside). Thanks for supporting Jordies and the community, we need more voices like his telling the truth. I even tried dance for a couple of months but ended up giving it up because i only had one friend there, and was convinced no one wanted me there. Be patient and speak kindly to yourself, and if you just can’t leave he house, accept that for today and find a way to enjoy your living space. But once she gets married, she would be busy with her life and house affairs, how would she have time for me. I like your questionmark at the end ^^ don’t know if it was on purpose, but the thing with crying is that it is a relief, but the problems don’t disappear from it. I love her and thank GOD for her! tracey wilson August 10th, 2014 Thanks for reading if you got this far! Hey Sandy, Resolve over Resolution In my good moments, I look around and try to acknowledge somebody more “ordinary” – e.g., NOT the prettiest woman in the room, or the coolest man. I don’t know if I’m depressed or just spoiled. A smile or a sincere hello could make a big difference in a person’s life at that moment! Grateful, glad, cozy. sometimes I take my frustration on him. “…we should take that as a warning sign that we are turned against ourselves in some basic way.” This sounds like it’s our fault. where do I go from here. Hey all when his with his officemate he is always happy and smiling. We hope that you remain safe and continue to reach out. Heidi February 27th, 2014 I can’t sleep I just feel sad and trying to sleep isn’t working. My other friends ignoring me probably because of my one horrible mistake! I am alone all the time, and I try to keep busy too. Still and all I am somewhat involved in everyone’s life (family) except one brother. It is SO important to reach out to people…even going to places like this site. this is what I do now on this website. I have no idea what happened to this person. i think that joining the army will make my parents proud of me, my fmaily proud of me.im a drop out, i got my ged but i dont think thats good enough. This article is utter crap. Feeling lonely or isolated for a long time or for no obvious reason could be a sign of depression. Yet I don’t necessarily despise folks just would rather be left alone than forced to socialize with what I see out there now. Leave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published. swaranjali November 27th, 2016 Best Wishes, I feel the same, but don’t be upset. I hope everyone finds it. Reply I know the feeling. May I ask, when you were raising your children, did you work? Reply These thought patterns make up the “critical inner voice (CIV),” an internalized enemy that leads to self-destructive thought processes and behaviors. Jina @ PsychAlive.org February 7th, 2014 I really need to get out and interact more. Still, the relationships might seem rather shallow. I feel so alone when my friends bring their friends who I havr not met. <3, These folks are great, their designs are rad and the clothes are great quality and last a long time :). But since then my teachers all started looking at me differently and my name was cancelled from the price list that year as the best student, I didn’t cry for the price I lost but cried because my comfort zone is no longer my comfort zone its been destroyed by my own mother, she wasn’t leaving with us I expected her to trust me but clearly she didn’t those were things that killed me inside but I could share with anybody. I pray that my life gets better but as of late I have felt like my life has become relentless, fulfilling, boring and when I nightingale steps to change it does not work, I feel like all my friends are happier then I am, my cousins are all married and happy and ill never have that and feel like my family dissent take me seriously. I’ve suffered with it for the last ten years and it can be incredibly isolating. I feel like a boss when I wear my lonely kids club Seinfeld hoodie. Reply anonymous March 30th, 2015 I’m completely with you!! I hope everyone finds it. I’d say both are very real, but are amplified by a lack of meaning and purpose. Reply Never stop and think what I would like to do, as I never have so have no idea what I would like to do now. The relationships I have had, the men seems to treat me like a idiot. Jazelle March 26th, 2015 People would never assume I had these thoughts of inadequacy and depression and thoughts of suicide, because on the outside I present a happy go lucky, confident attractive guy, but on the inside I feel lonely, depressed and some times like what’s the point in me living. This is really quite the rut to be in. Or could you talk to a Christian therapist? I will keep you in my prayers. Reply So I told her how I felt and she started spending more time with me. According to a new survey of 20,000 Americans sponsored by The Cigna Health Insurance Company, loneliness is at epidemic proportions. It happened to me too but God gave me hope. totally puts everything in perspective. I am lonely and depressed and suffer from anxiety. Hi, lately I’ve been feeling like my parents don’t have any time to help me with anything or evern just spend time with me. It sucks so bad. I am really lonely. There’s no point in feeling sad about family coz it just hurts and keeps us away from happiness and the present. I just stand there and think why am I like this. Think of life as a gym, and everything you’re going thru is making you strong. What we deeply lack is connection and authenticity, with ourselves, each other, and our higher power. I would like to hear if anyone wants to tell me more about their life. I had friends I trusted and loved, people who cared about me… my family issues are never ending because of my sexuality, and when I decided to come out hell let lose.. Me too, left the man i love because of mental, emotional abusive. It being whatever drives your day. I was told she had 6 months maximum to live and got an apartment, am paying for part of all her medical, oxygen, hospital, ambulance etc… expenses while on ssd myself. Reply One of the most alarming things about loneliness, depression, and the “mental health” system in the US is that professionals and article writers seem either not to read the comments in their articles’ comment sections, or if they do, not to realize both the similarity among commenters’ shared experiences and the remarkable homology among many different articles’ comment sections. I would love to meet someone who would see me for me. They come home late in night n never even inform me. but lately hes been so busy and he barely spend any time with me. Then, as it continued, I hear my self thinking about bad stuff. so many times I plan to sign up for some mom’s club or do something that will get me out of isolation, yet, I always end up staying home and burned up by the end of the day. Her and her boyfriend came along with me at church a few times. But I am not suicidal, I just look for ways to deal with it. I honestly can tell you because I started relying on myself .. Take care and stay happy! It’s easy to say when you’re lonely, hang out with friends. While we will still struggle with loneliness, self-esteem issues and our self-worth, the truth of who we really are will begin to surface. This is really quite the rut to be in. One of the best actions we can take to counteract the hopelessness we may feel is to think outside of ourselves. Yes, just one friend like you, Joe, would be one of life’s biggest blessings. Be patient and speak kindly to yourself, and if you just can’t leave he house, accept that for today and find a way to enjoy your living space. Mildred Abbey August 4th, 2016 E no one will talk to me she sells drugs rob does them as well her house is full of low lifes she has turned my GRAND kids against me.. 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